Going against social norms often comes at a cost. Many people have enough other things going against them that they need to get whatever small advantages they can.

I'm not sure that anyone is suggesting that it isn't their own responsibility. No one is saying that someone else should have to shave them or something.

Showering is also a hassle. How far do you want to take this logic?

That is still your responsibility. I did not go farther than that.